A male born under Scorpio sign is known to be very mysterious and passionate by nature. It’s hard to penetrate his emotions inside; as a master of disguise, he’s really good at hiding what they actually feel.
In relationships, he is demanding and has high expectations from his partner. Making a commitment to this guy for a long-term relationship can be a special experience.
Yet, what if the bonding with him turns out to be a weak one?
Talking about Scorpio man after broke up, there is no turning back when he gets over you. If he decides to separate from you, it won’t affect him much as he has thought about this over and over again before coming to the decision. In his mind, he actually has already broken up with you many times; that’s why he will be much more stable.
Will Scorpio man come back after a breakup?
Keep reading to find out the truth!
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When a Scorpio Man Dumps You…
The moment your male Scorpion mentions about the breakup, you should probably preserve your dignity and accept it. In case you are able to handle the situation in a mature way, there might be a chance for you two to keep in touch.
Women often wonder, “How Scorpio man acts after break up?”
Depending on each Scorpio-born individual’s birth chart, I believe they have completely different characteristics.
Here is a list of Scorpio males’ behavior post break up:
The silent crier
This man won’t let the world know how depressed he is from the inside. He will become a recluse and hide into a shell. Less interacting with friends and family, he’ll keep feeling gloomy until someone new comes along to change him.
The obsessive type
This man will not stop begging for second chances. He will do whatever it takes to win the ex back. He finds it hard to move on from someone he truly gets emotionally attached with.
The vengeful type
This is the one that’s scariest of all and needs to watch out for. We all know how vengeful Scorpio is; men of this type are known for readily stinging someone he wants to avenge. They will not leave a single stone unturned to torture someone who has hurt their heart.
The cold-hearted type
This man will ignore the ex like she never existed. He will block that person from everywhere for an eternity post break up. There is no way she can step back into his life.
How To Get a Scorpio Man Back after You Hurt Him?
When it comes to love relationships, breakup is an ordinary matter. Some couples, after breaking up, become friends; meanwhile, some decide to go separate ways. However, what if you discover that you still love your ex too much?
Don’t be afraid to start off a plan called ‘Begin again’.
The thing is, your ex partner is a tough guy – a male Scorpion.
Dating him can be thrilling yet getting a Scorpio man back seems to be the opposite. Although he’s neither cold nor harsh, it’s difficult to deal with the fiery temper of an individual born under a Water sign. Simply, he is scared of being hurt by you one more time; thus, in order to win his heart again, show him you’ve already changed into a girl who is worthy of love.
With a strong, intense character, your Scorpio partner is considered as a reserved and cautious man. Despite possessing a huge heart, he often becomes indignant with anything he dislikes and does not care, or which does not suit him. He can be mysterious, charismatic, and charming; yet, unfortunately, his reputation for taking offensive is well-known.
You hurt his inner emotions?
He will return and take revenge on you badly. Very possessive, controlled, and jealous, how can your ‘Begin again’ strategy work when having to cope with all of Scorpio man’s negative traits?
Understanding Your Scorpio Man
Looking for tips to win a Scorpio man back?
You must get to know his personality traits when involved in a relationship for a deep insight. This guy tends to cover his secrets but expect his beloved to be open, straightforward, and honest.
In order to get him back, the best option is to make a heartfelt conversation – don’t be afraid to express your inner true feelings about your relationship. Be truthful and he’ll have no reason to be jealous or doubted you.
The Scorpio is, naturally, extremely passionate, profound, and serious. He loves deeply and, of course, hates deadly also. He values sincere, immersed partnerships; thus, show your Scorpion partner that you are putting a lot of effort to win true affections from him.
You already know how unique a Scorpio can be.
When it comes to heart matters, you need to proceed with extreme caution. Learn how to get a Scorpio man back starts with an apology. You should make amends for the issues you two have been facing. Be genuine when apologizing to him; make it clear that you have regretted and taken many lessons from your mistakes. This step will help smoothing the path towards reconciliation for the two of you.
Significantly, never making your tough guy jealous – that may be the worst possible move you can do.
Instead, focus on establishing a new connection with the Scorpio man. He appreciates honest and supportive companions, so become one of him. You do not want to bring all the painful problems in the past into this new relationship, neither does he. That’s why it’s effective to begin by being his platonic buddy.
Work on showing him that he can depend on you at any occasion and that you are still the same woman he was initially attracted to.
5 Valuable Tips for Winning Back His Heart
Breakup is often a rushed action that will probably make you regret later. You might think you don’t want to see your Scorpio man anymore, but after making up your mind you finally realize it’s good to have him by your side.
That’s why you look for tips to reclaim his heart in order to get him back, right?
Don’t worry as you will find some doable ways that can help you bring back your Scorpio partner:
#1: Have fun on your own
I know you are trying to get over the breakup and not really have fun in reality; however, don’t let him see your sadness. The only way to catch his attention is to have fun on your own!
Don’t quickly to unfollow or block his social media as you have to show him how happy you are after breaking up with him. Be active to upload all moments of you and your mutual friends online because your purpose is to let him see that.
Seeing that you are enjoying your life makes him want you back.
#2: Be intellectual
A Scorpio man is not really interested in women who just have the look; instead, he is more into the lady with brain.
Therefore, you need to be smart to stay in a long term with this guy as he always craves to have intelligent discussions with his partner. Make sure you are knowledgeable enough to keep up with any topic of his talk.
Sweet words are not powerful enough to attract him again.
#3: Don’t show up all the time
“Why Scorpio man broke up with me?”
Due to his personality traits, not many people know that but this guy is tired of clingy women. So, the key to win him back is not to follow him around all the time.
Will a Scorpio man come back if you ignore him?
The answer is yes! He will get bored if you keep showing up around. Once he becomes annoyed, you’ll lose your chance of coming back to him.
Why don’t you make your life busier without him? Instead of trying to tie him with invisible ropes, you can spend your spare time pursuing as well as accomplishing your life goals.
#4: Apologize him for your guilt
Give yourself a break after the breakup, and reflect on reasons leading both of you to this situation during that period.
If you are guiltier, then you need to take the responsibility: be gently and say your apology to him. Of course you must let your man feel your sincerity and honesty in your words.
#5: Reminisce all good old days
How to know if a Scorpio man misses you and wants you back?
Find a good occasion and ask your man for a dinner in a restaurant as friends. I recommend you to choose the place where you two went in the first date – it’s good to reminisce good days back then.
Even though he won’t tell anything about this, he actually remembers everything and understands your intention. During the conversation, show him that you have grown up from your version in the past.
Be more mature in thoughts, attitude, and behavior and he will miss you when getting home later.
Generally, getting a Scorpio man back can be a difficult challenge to you; however, don’t give up on him if you believe he’s the true mate you are meant to be with. Follow the advice above and you’ll become irresistible to him again.
Be cautious – doing the wrong thing can mean the end of the relationship forever.
Scorpio Man Always Comes Back…?
After breaking with his woman once, does Scorpio male come back?
Your ex-boyfriend has total ego. The thought of breakup is hateful to him; also, he cannot settle for less. When such an unfortunate event becomes a reality, this man struggles hard to forgive the partner.
Forgetting is another matter, but it is even not there in the genes of the Scorpion.
If you can realize the true worth of a Scorpio man and return on time, there are very less yet definite chances of the relationship overcoming the crisis. But, once he makes up his mind to move on, there is absolutely nothing from you can pursue him to make a come back. When you break a Scorpio, remember that you actually make him stronger and impenetrable.
So, the answer to the question, will Scorpio man come back is neither yes nor no.
It depends on how you behave to him after the breakup!
For a Scorpio man after breakup, he may see it as a learning experience or could be bitter and revengeful. Self-esteem and trust is always a big deal, he would take no time to turn his back on people who break his trust.
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i have dated a scorpio man. well he didnt say like officially break up. He say we both need to calm down lets seperate a while..then he got said that he will find in more few days but it turns out into weeks..since then we didnt contact each other and i dont know what should i do..i just want to understand when he say like that does it mean we both are over?
Dear Lilian,
Sadly, when a Scorpio man says let’s separate for awhile, his interest for you already fades away, He will make his comeback if he still loves you because this guy falls hard and loves harder.
If he wants to let go, then don’t try to pull him back.
Find yourself someone deserve your love better.
Sincere!
hii
I wanna ask something… can i ??
Of course you can, dear!
my boyfriend scorpio suddenly initiated a break up while we are both on a fight, is he really serious when he said that or he only said it out of anger? Will he come back or not anymore?we stopped talking for 3 weeks now since our last fight?are we really over?
Dear Cecile,
I’ve never seen a Scorpio who has ever just walked away and not come back at some point. There’s a good chance he’ll come back. Just be very patient and remember to stay open even if you feel yourself closing off from him. Give him the space he needs and flirt here and there. It’ll show you trust him and it gives him that bit of challenge he needs.
Good luck sweetie!
Hi,
My boyfriend is a scorpion and he really loves me but has to marry the girl of his mum choice. He told me not to hold onto him so I initiated the break up before he dumps me. Will he contact me again? After texting him to move on I rang the next day to see if he received my message he asked me not to call him again.
Dear Lily,
Usually when a Scorpio walks away, he walks away for good. There is nothing you can do. You are dead to them. I would leave him alone right now. He keeps telling you not to call him again. So do it. No more reaching out. If he reaches out to you, you’ll know you never lost him. If he does not, then he’s already made his decision.
Sincere!
I am a Capricorn woman and had a short affair with a Scorpio man , the sex was the best he had ever had , it was going great until one day he showed me a pic of another woman , said she was ugly and crazy . But yet they where texting . Shortly after that our affair wasn’t the same , so I called it off . Was he really trying to tell me something or just make me jealous?
Hi dear,
It would seem he is crying out for attention from you and thats is why he is telling you about other women. He wants to get a reaction of jealousy out of you in order for you to pay attention to him more.
Sincere!
Hey, me and my boyfriend he’s a scropio and he told me he felt not comfortable in his home and I ask why because I make him feel he’s the enemy and he stop coming to bed and showing me affection, so I did some back, so he text me and told me to find that man , since I been hurt before so I said ok ,I will get my cloths and stay with my daughter since he said that, and he said I don’t have common sense, but I not gonna beg him back, life go on.i feel in my heart it was someone else to. Thanks for your time.
hi, my ex broke up with me 3 weeks ago and we talked a week after and he said he cares alot but needs more time to think about us and cannot decide. his birthday is a week from today, do i text him happy birthday or continue to give him space?
Dear Sarah,
Wait for him to respond to you. A Scorpio will come to you when they’re ready to talk again. If it’s been longer then a week, you should text him and ask if he’s okay or ask how’s he’s doing.
Sincere!
Hi need advice for my scorpio man…..about 7 days ago he and i ended up in a fight and my mom wanted him to move out…..he didnt want to leave without me well he ended up flipping out and decided to put hands on me and my mom….i still love him and still want him but im not sure if hes thinking the same thing…im the first person hes done everything with emotionally and psychialy what should i do? He blocked me on everything and pretends i dont exist. What should i do? I have a feeling he will be back but im not sure
Hi im a leo and me and my scorpio broke up 3 weeks ago i ended it bc he made a huge mistake and wont own up to it and blamed everything on me when its his fault too. he blocked me and everything…..after being together for a whole year…he says he will never love me or forgive me ever again when he also wont admit to his mistake and apologize i tried apologizing and make it right but he wants nothing to do with me even though he was in the wrong too…what do i do?
Help! My scorpio man after 8 years says we need space and then buys m.j e Valentine candy??????
Hi Patti,
If you clarity as to “why” he distanced himself then ask. Other than that, yes I would suggest just leaving him alone. Scorpios or anyone who heralds from intense or prominent Scorpio energy require more space than the usual tribe. I know this first hand since my dispostor is in Scorpio along with other aspects in my natal chart declaring more down and alone time from the populous.
Sincere
Hello Mr, Blakenship
I’m here in the comments asking for assistance on my Scorpio spouse. I’m Taurus btw. I love this man with every fiber in my being. I know he’s my soulmate. When we together he loved me like no other. We recently broke up before our 6 month anniversary. He said he needs time to work on himself and to figure out himself. But when he talk to me now he seems distant and nonchalant. But when I tell him I need him he shows he cares. I also asked him if he still want us he told me he doesn’t know. He also will open my message with out response at times but if I tell him I need him he’s there. He was completely in love with me now I believe there is another girl. I just want to know how to get him back. He told me he would always be here for me and always love me and always have a shoulder to cry on when he’s around when we ended things. But I need him…we have communication issues nothing major although it does cause arguments. How do I get him back ?
Hi dear,
You can get him back.
BUT, unfortunately, he’s not him anymore. Just drill it in your head. PEOPLE CHANGE. Every minute. Every hour. Every day. Period. Some change for the better, some for the worse. He stopped being your gallant Knight. It’s not only the name, job or appearance that defines a person. Behavior, feelings, etc. forms an integral part of it. He’s a different man now. You can’t get him back, if you’re rooting for him. I hope you understand the difference. So, you must accept that you’re not the one he assumes in his life and by the description you wrote, I’m sceptical if he ever did. There’s a fine line between love and infatuation. His actions are indicating the latter. No matter, how hard you try, he won’t be the same guy who felt for you months back. Stay strong and stop running after him. There’re many wonderful guys who can be that him you are looking for.
Sincere
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Hi
I’m sagittarius and i was dating a scorpio man. I love him so much and in our relationship we were facing problems like i don’t trust him and sometimes he would say ‘ i feel like am not good enough for you’. He broke up with me thee times and the last time was the day before yesterday. The first time he broke up with me i cried like a baby then he took me back, the second time i begged him to give me another chance and i will make this right and the third time he said i don’t wanna feel out of love with you and i don’t want to prove myself to you everything that i love you and i have my insecurities so i will break up with you and it’s for our own interest. It was hard and it’s still hard. I just feel like he broke up with me because i was not ready to have sex with him. So i want to know whether is it possible he might come back or not
Hi dear,
A Scorpio man or a man with a “Scorpion astrological energy or personality” can want you, even if he was the one that dumped you. In fact, if you bewitched him to the point he lost complete and absolute control, he may have dumped you, but will never forget you, will think of you always and will probably considering coming back around.
A Scorpio man always want a challenge, so if you portray yourself as someone suddenly unobtainable and aloof, this will peak his interest. A good way to do this is to make him jealous by dating his best friend or even his cousin or brother. I know this sounds rather devious, but if you desire the Scorpio man you have a few tricks up your sleeve. On the positive side, Scorpio men are usually outgoing socially, have a modicum of charisma, and their materialistic drive makes them good providers. They can be the life of the party and will defend you at a moment’s notice, that is, if you’re doing what they want you to do. Be careful however if you do get that relationship you want, again. As you know, most Scorpio men are controlling and tend to think of everyone as stupid or boring. Pleasing this type of man is very challenging, to say the least.
Beware of his stinger.
So My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years. I’m a Taurus. Before being lovers we were friends. He’s my person. He’s been the best. I moved 1500 miles to be with him. The catch.. he left his wife and had an affair with me. He’s always treated me like royalty he’s an introvert. He doesn’t trust anyone and he has been out of love with his wife for years. Here the problem. I have emotional mental issues and I’ve taken everything out on him numerous times. For a few years. He always asks me to stop and. Still sacrifices for me. Until the last couple months. I’ve pushed him to far. He said I’m too and he’s trying to be a better person. And wants peace. He broke it off with me. This is the first time. I’m devestated. I’m sorry. And he’s my person. I can’t function. It’s been three weeks he’s asked me to leave him alone and give him time to heal and rehabilitate. He is so angry and hurt by my disrespect. Out of my own emotional needs I continued to text him and call him instead of leaving him alone and now it’s to the point where he is angry because I haven’t listened to him. Today he said we will always be friends that God holds the future but he will never allow himself to get hurt again and to please just give him his space and time. And he will reach out to me. I am deeply sorry. I want to sincerely apologize to him. I want him happy above most. How long do I wait before I reach out?? I know I have to give time but I would like to really sit down and apologize and try to rebuild our friendship. We really were best friend. Give me advice please.
I’m a Leo and my scorpio boyfriend broke up with me three days ago.He still loves me but he’s sure that it’s over because he thinks I don’t understand him but I’m sure that it’s because I’m moving to another country.I begged him to stay but he was reluctant.Its our one year anniversary in ten days.He told me not to contact him again and that he will never come back.Will he come back again ?
Hi,
I’m a Scorpio female 36 and my ex also a Scorpio 44 male. I have never been in a committed relationship before only toxic ones, but with him it was different, I learned from my mistakes and did not repeat them, him on the other hand has been married and had other previous engagements with children involved. We had a beautiful relationship for 9 months everything was perfect, we got along, and understood each other really well. He was really committed, told me he wanted us to get married, he surprised me one day asking about rings, gave me the key to his house. Gave me constant attention, Love, he was always there, I never had my doubts, I wasn’t jealous or clingy, wasn’t demanding controlling or nagging. But I must confess as a Scorpio, and because of my previous relationships, it was hard for me to let him entirely in, not because i didn’t think he was worthy but because i was afraid that if I’d let him see my dark side and all my flaws he would be disappointed and run away like everyone else before him. On the 10th month we started having constant fights, it all started when I felt he hadn’t been loyal to me, so that resented me for a while until I got over it. We spaced out for about a week too cool down, the. We talked about what had happened and decided to leave it in the past and not even mention it again. Anyway we kept fighting for small not really important stuff. I know sometimes id push him away, but he’d always stay, until he started becoming distant and I started to worry and become paranoid about him having someone else because we weren’t in a good place.
So then I became clingy and jealous and controlling the last week, I even caused him of cheating, and being such an honorable person he got very offended, and replied that it wasn’t fair I had never seen a text call or anything that proved that, and that his phone was always unlocked and I could see it anytime I wanted too. plus he got sick with covid so it made things worse because he wasn’t feeling well And we couldn’t see each other, and he was being cold and distant and I tried to make things better again but couldn’t so he got upset and I pushed him towards the breakup. He said I needed help, that I could never be happy if I didn’t fix my issues about trust, being defensive, or always wanting to be right. He said I could call and text, and after I better myself we could start dating again and see where it goes. I started therapy the next day. I gave him a week so he could be peaceful, then. I reached out To know how his health was. The next day I asked to talk, he came to my house and I surprised him with a romantic dinner, he was overwhelmed, since no one had ever done such thing for him. told him I was in therapy but specially the reason was to apologize for all my behavior in the relationship for not opening up, and told him I wanted to show him I was filled with regret and wanted to make it up to him. So after a couple of days it was my birthday, he texted and called at midnight but was upset I was over at friend’s house (girls) they surprised me with a cake and a little booze. On my actual birthday we texted back and forth but it made me sad that he wasn’t sweet and caring at least on that day I thought he’d make an exception, specially since he said he still loved me and missed me very much. The next few days I wanted to reach out to him but he wasn’t very responsive., I tried being more comunicative as that was something he’d always wanted in our relationship. He’d always answer my texts in a nonchalant way, very cordial. So I asked if he’d like me to stop but he said if he’d be annoyed by it he’d let me know, so I continued being present and showing I cared. He always responded and was very interested in how my therapy and we discussed my issues and i opened up to him on some of the things that I was afraid to tell him thinking he would be disappointed. I went looking for him only once and we talked for a while we hugged and he admitted he still loved me and missed me,.The only times when he wouldn’t respond is when I tried sending him stuff about our relationship and fighting for love, or anything romantic. So continuing with my efforts to show him I loved him and I was sorry, I started posting WhatsApp statuses about forgiveness and dedicating them to him (since he’d always claim that if I posted something it could be for anyone…) but when I clearly posted his inicials he laughed about it and acknowledged this time it was meant for him. So I went a step further and posted a picture of him saying I loved him and I didn’t want to lose him and he responded positively for the first time. The problem was it was a status only he could see (I’d done that because i was afraid he might react in a bad way and want me to erase it like the last time on our 10th month anniversary, he said we were fighting and it wasn’t ok to do this, even though we were still together, that hurt me a lot). I have never kept my relationship with him a secret but I don’t believe everyone should know we are fighting. I had always been very public about my relationship in all my social media posting pictures and stuff cause we where very happy and he really enjoyed that and did the same with me, and also he had an issue with previous partners wanting to keep him in the dark. Anyway He found out he was the only one he could see my latest status I posted for him he got extremely angry and called Me to end it and move on with my life, I tried to explain and apologize but he was to upset to listen, I told him I was afraid he might react badly and would feel embarassed if I had to take down my posts to him if they were public, and that my my intentions were good I didn’t want him to think I did it for the wrong reasons but he just said he hated people making a fool out of him. So I got in touch with one of his closests friends to know what had happened and how he’d found out, he asked her about my status and was very sneaky about it. That night he went to her and her husbands house, they’re his best friends and the only ones he had told about our breakup. The next day I got a voicenote upset about the fact I talked about us to his Friend, to which I did not respond. The next day I talked to his friend to know what had happened and she told me was very mad at me and she tried to defend me but it only made it worse, it was only then when he started talking about me and how I messed thing up, all my flaws and how he didn’t want to ever be with me again. So I know he is totally mad at me so I decided to give him 1 week to calM down. He has not blocked me on any social media, been posting many random unrelated to us whatsapp status updates but I never open them. He hasn’t even changed his Facebook status to single again even though I asked him about it before this big fight. He hasn’t even asked me for his house key back. I am waiting for the week to be over because I would like him to not be upset anymore, and because it’ll be his birthday. That day I plan on reaching out for him because even though we are not together anymore I think it is very mean not to do so. I plan on giving him a small gift and a card but nothing extravagant. I’m just so afraid of how he will react when he sees me. I totally want to get back with him but I know I must give him space to forget about our fights and start missing me.
I am not going to beg him to take me back because I know that will only push him away but the truth is I’m desperate, I feel we really had a connection and that he is my soulmate, I don’t want to lose him or him to set his mind to move on. Please help. I would like to write a letter to him with all my most inner thoughts and feelings and remind him of all our good times together, apologizing for my faults, and admitting to him how I really wanted to marry him and be together forever even though I was scared it might not work out when he discovered my flaws and that’s the reason I would put a pause when he was so eager for us to move in and get married. I wanted him to know me well before any of this so that he would be disappointed when it was too late. What should I do? Help! Please!
Sorry for the longest post ever.
He is a very sensitive guy and I know how much I hurt him, he told his friend he had given me enough opportunities (even though it was the first time we ever broke up) and also I never even asked him for one. But he was tired of me being immature and he didn’t want to finish raising me. I know some scorpios tend to be very unforgiving, I am like that when it’s someone I don’t really care about, but I can’t be that way with the people I love. I always think love triumphs above everything. Is it really over? Is he seriously never gonna give me another chance after he was so deeply in love with me, thought I was the one he wanted to spend all his life with? I never cheated on him, and the only time I ever lied it was about the status and I know it’s something dumb And that it really hurt him because he confessed how excited he was when I posted his pictures saying I loved him and didnt want to lose him but will that really be it??? I mean why was it so important for him for everyone to see that? I mean the relationship is about 2 people so why should everyone know we were having problems??
My ex is a Scorpio. We dated for a year and a half and he broke up with me over the summer. We were away with his family and we had a fight and I ended up leaving in the middle of the night. Some words were said on my end that I wish I could take back and I initiated the break up. But He made sure to see it through. He dropped off my things a long with a letter in which he told me to move on. We were best friends and we had a good relationship but that’s not what he expressed in the letter. He said he needed someone more like him and that we were simply incompatible. I know I’n my heart that he did this cause of what I said that night before I left. I messaged him once but I haven’t heard anything back from him. It’s been 5 months of no contact and I don’t think he will come back but I do know that he will regret his decision someday. It’s hard for me to move on but I am slowly. If you have any advice for me I would love to hear it. Thanks
Hy I and my Scorpio boyfriend just had a fight and I Angrily told him its over and he just said ok will he come back to me
I have a question. I was dating a scorpio man for three years. He called it off in November and we haven’t talked much here and there. He seems to be doing good and happy but I miss him like crazy and know he is my person. It’s so hard for me to let go. We separated because he thought I cheated on him, but I told him everything and that I never cheated and what happened the night he thought I cheated on him. I don’t think he believes me and I’m not sure how to show him I didn’t step out on us. He says he can’t see himself coming back or trying again because he doesn’t want to make me unhappy and put me through that. Do you think he is actually done or should I give him more space and time to think about it?
Hi,
I am a Gemini and I had an affair with a Scorpio men for a couple of months back in december. He is in a relationship already but they are about to separate because she has to go work in another country for a couple of years. Everything was going fine between me and him we always found a way to see each other even if it only meant going for a short car ride late a night. Passionate but slow and I was quite alright with it. He knew that I was not interested to play any games. I wanted to date and see where things led to. He texted me all day everyday or at least wished me good morning every morning when things were busier and more complicated because of is situation. Then one day he texted me in the morning I answered and didn’t get any news since then. I texted him every week then every two weeks after that, leaving him as much space as possible. He always answered me and asked about me without me pushing him to but never texted first. I don’t know what to do about it. It now has been 2 weeks since we last spoke. Last time he said that he missed me and would like to see me but doesn’t do anything about it Should I keep reaching out to him from times to times, should I let him go. I am very confused about this. I really miss him and our little moments. Thanks 🙂
Recently I fought in with my Scorpio boyfriend because I had a breakdown and took out my frustration on him in which made him stressed out. As an Aries, I like to be honest an open and I realize that I was being emotional at that time and I was horrified with myself for saying things that I did not mean while trying to sort out my emotions and at the same time I was hoping he could calm me down by saying everything will be okay. I did apologize to him and explained that what I really wanted was for him to be my steady rock at my moment of confusion and that I wasn’t expecting him to fix my problem or give the perfect answer. However it has been two weeks since my apology text and I wonder if I should wait some more or is it really consider as the end of our relationship? I’ve told him many times that I would never push him to do something he doesn’t like and that the direction of our relationship depends on his speed but sometimes I just feel anxious because here I am I always open and honest about my feelings and yet he sometimes talk how he would end up being single and alone because of his trust issues that gradually made me feel a bit offended. I understand that he doesn’t believe in marriage because both of his parents divorced twice but it’s like his implying I would eventually leave him when I’m really serious about him. I used to be in a toxic relationship with my ex and was scarred emotionally but decided to give this relationship a chance with my Scorpio boyfriend despite it being a long distance relationship and I do trust him. So sometimes I felt like I’ve been giving my Scorpio boyfriend all the attention and time he needs without being needy or offended when he needs his me time and yet he couldn’t trust me enough to see how far we could go .. it’s like the divorce issue is always what stopping him from being fully invest in relationship
Hi Mr. Jackson Blankenship,
My boyfriend left me again for the 2nd time, he broke up with me through a video he sent to me thru messenger. The video was all about saying goodbye and explaining again but never replied on my messages after right away he sent me his video. Actually, the video was just a black, I can’t see his face though and our fight was just too small, I just felt that he didn’t care for me that time. He’s not talking to me for almost 5 days and just sent me immediately his video. What should I do? I begged him and I just stopped it because it will push him more away.
Hi dear,
I do not think he will come back. Instead of seeing this as a bad thing, I will ask you if your relationship with him is worth keeping regardless if he comes back again or not.
Something about your relationship was so bad that he decided leaving was the best course of action. In other words, something drove him away. Even if he regretted doing so later, at the time he saw leaving as better than staying. Since he did it again, I assume nothing changed.
I’m not condoning his actions or suggesting you did anything specifically but undeniably something about the relationship or your interactions together caused him to choose to leave.
If a couple needs to take a break from each other to reduce their stress levels and cool down, that is a sign that they do not work well together. They can not seek comfort in one another because being together IS the problem. The break on it’s own does not fix anything or change anything. If you two have done nothing to improve the relationship or the problems that obviously exist, it stands to reason that he would do the exact same thing because the exact same things were still happening.
You gave him a second chance. Don’t overlook the fact that by coming back he was giving the relationship a second chance as well. Apparently whatever is going on was too much for him to accept. You should probably move on from this even if he does try to come back again. It doesn’t appear to be working between you.
Sincere
My scorpio boyfriend got along well and he told me he loves me and would cherish me always. On Saturday, 4th September, he still greeted me intimately. However, all of a sudden , I didnt hear from him since then and to may dismay, he cancelled the mobile number on which we chat on watsapp. May I know if he will come back or he is gone for good? He didnt say anything about breaking up, so do I move on?
Hi Jeffline,
I guess there is nothing wrong if he had left you. May be you can figure out better what could be the reason behind all this. Everything happens for good but we need to take lessons from them. Someone better is waiting for you I guess. Yes, it is difficult to forget someone you love unintentionally yet it’s not impossible. Take time, cry a lot but remember the thing that he left you. So it’s not your fault. You have tried your part to maintain the relationship but it was him who did not have the courage to face you and state the reason why he had done so. Time will heal and interact a lot with other friends. Who knows something better is waiting for you to make you happy throughout your life.
Sincere