With a secretive and intense nature, Scorpio-born individuals are often misunderstood as reserved and cautious people.
However, they actually have a huge heart – simply proving to a Scorpio that you are trustworthy, they will be your lifelong and loyal friend. When it comes to relationships, they are extremely serious and unfailingly faithful to the ones they love. These people make great friends and terrible enemies, really!
When a Scorpio man is hurt, is it possible for him to come back?
If you are dating a male of this zodiac sign and have no idea of how to get forgiveness from a Scorpio man, continue reading this article for useful tips.
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8 Easy Tips to Treat a Hurt Scorpio Male
How long for a Scorpio man to forgive?
I’m pretty sure saying it depends on the depth of the situation. It’s a slim to none chance he would forgive you or give anyone a second chance. Patience is the key with him – I mean he does need a while to get over anything painful or hurtful.
Don’t hassle him too much since this guy doesn’t like to be chased; actually, he is the one to do the chasing. Giving him space and time, as well as going silent on him, Scorpio’s curiosity will increase and he will end up calling you.
Rather than confusing here and there, it’s better to look up for tips of how to deal with a Scorpio man’s anger and get him back.
Check out some info below:
#1: Become a better version
It was because a mistake making both of you separated. If you want to fix your relationship with your Scorpio, then the best way is to prove that you are improving from the old you. Instead of thinking about the past, try to be a better version of yourself.
The Scorpio male always has a good impression for independent women with mature thoughts. Probably he will change his mind once seeing you growing wholly.
#2: Be more outgoing
Aside from trying to be a better version, you must be a positive person in order to win back this Scorpio guy. He doesn’t want to get involved with toxic people; therefore, always fill your mind with positive thoughts when being around him. No matter what he is doing, be supportive.
Thinking positively helps you control your emotions well!
#3: Don’t hold on the past
We all make mistakes as no one is perfect. Instead of keeping looking back in the past, it’s much better if you can learn from your mistakes and become a new version of yourself. As long as you don’t get hold of the past, there’s a possibility you can contact your Scorpio man back; otherwise, everything will be ruined.
If you want him to forgive you, then forgive yourself first and move on.
#4: Don’t rush him
Let me remind you that your man is very picky. Especially when coming to love matters, he tends to consider from many different perspectives. Before he makes any decision, you’re advised to be open-minded and not to rush or force him to get back to you.
This guy really hates the person who is always in a rush; most importantly, he can’t stand those trying to put him under an order. Never boss him or make any impulsive move or your whole plan will be left unfinished.
#5: Be understanding
Very honest, he is likely to state his opinion in any situation.
When there’s a conversation happening between you and your Scorpio man, you should ask him nicely for his viewpoints on something. Don’t be critical if you are begging for his forgiveness! When loving a Scorpio, this means you have to be extremely patient and understanding.
#6: Recognize common scorpio traits
Treat him with love, respect, and selflessness and he will be devoted to you. If you wrong a Scorpio, keep in mind that he may eventually forgive you but will never forget. In addition, always embrace the competitive streak of your man.
#7: Talk to him sincerely
This guy is often driven by a hunger for hidden truth and mystery. By making conversations with him, you can find out his interests. When talking, be honest and give him your full attention. Tell him your stories, but avoid revealing everything all at once.
It can be pretty tricky and tiresome waiting on us, but if you really love him or care about the relationship then it’s worth.
#8: Never tell lies
Once being in a romantic relationship with a Scorpio guy, keep in mind that you should NOT lie to him. Whether you lie to impress him or to make him jealous, this just doesn’t work on him because he’s super suspicious. He appreciates honesty and expects the same from his partner, so don’t disappoint him or he will walk away.
On the other hand, he feels nothing if not interested in you.
When a Scorpio Man Gets Hurt…
Scorpio man will be angry and disappointed to the extreme only when someone he loves hurts him badly. If you incidentally gave your Scorpio partner an injury, how can you get his forgiveness? Is that even possible?
Well, this guy falling in love will rarely forget and forgive for what you did to him, especially if it hurt his ego.
Basically, getting the forgiveness from a male Scorpio mainly depends on what you did. There is a line that once you cross, it can sometimes be impossible to return.
He has a pride of a scorpion, and you have to know that when dealing with him.
Messing up a little bit, it’s ok. However, once you disrespect him, there’s a chance he will never forgive you; this means both of you cannot be close again. In case you try to make up to Scorpio, then there is possibility of forgiveness. Otherwise, his forgiveness will decrease dramatically if you act like you did nothing wrong.
What are Bad Qualities a Scorpio Man Owns?
Scorpios are known for having quite the temper. They also have a jealous side to them, especially when it comes to relationships. People find it’s hard to approach those born under this zodiac sign as they often come off as intimidating individuals.
Their emotions are very powerful; much worse, they tend to take their anger out on the wrong people.
For girls who want to date a guy of Scorpio sun sign, it’s necessary to learn about his characteristics, especially negative traits of Scorpio man.
Knowing all of his bad traits will avoid you from hurting him so bad.
A man born between October 23rd and November 21st falls under the sign of Scorpio, symbolized by the scorpion. Considered to be a powerful sign, he can be moody and dark. Certain traits of this guy, such as being compulsive and obsessive, are often seen as being negative.
He has strong feelings even if this doesn’t show on the surface. Easily becoming very intense far too soon, he can also be jealous, controlling, and possessive. If anyone upsets him in any area, he has a nasty habit of wanting to damage that person as much as he can…yup, he’s extremely vindictive.
From my experience, there are three types of Scorpio.
Scorpio male negative traits can be different depending on which level of Scorpio your man is operating:
The first type can be spotted commonly
Those belong to this type are very stubborn and dogmatic generally. Like all Scorpios, they can be very faithful and loyal if all is well. Conversely, they will reveal the sting on their tail. They also have the habit of blaming others; it’s never Scorpios’ fault.
The second type only has the negative feelings for a very short while
Guys of this type tend to listen to others’ explanations and do their best to stop behaving badly. It’s not that they don’t go on the attack; they do make formidable enemies, but not become vindictive.
The third type is very spiritual people
It’s really rare to spot those. They can seem very nice and caring, but don’t be in too much of a rush to get intimate with them.
He can be vengeful if being betrayed by his lover, or discovering your feelings for him weren’t real or not as deep as his feelings for you. Even though he’s a water sign, it can quickly become boiling water. Also, being emotional and passionate can cause him to be moody, especially when analyzing a situation and deciding how to act.
While contemplating, Scorpio male prefers to be left alone and does not want to be interrupted. If he gets interrupted, he becomes easily irritated; this gives him an aura of moodiness.
We all know that Scorpio is a negative sign; however, not many of us realize that Scorpio is the most misunderstood among 12 astrology signs.
People born under this sign are very emotional. Their emotions are intensified – both good emotions and bad; and negative emotions of jealousy and resentment are hallmarks of this sign. They are constantly trying to understand their emotions through finding a deeper purpose in life.
The Scorpio guy is, in short, very jealous and possessive, especially when it comes to relationships. He, at the same time, is quite vengeful if sensing betrayal any signal.
Wrap up
So, how to get forgiveness from a Scorpio man?
Be patient and show your sincerity and he will definitely come around talking to you; yet, it’s understandable if he is much more skeptical of you. That will be something you would have to accept and try your best to help him with through actions of reassurance.
Well, it’s never too late to learn about treating a Scorpio.
Keep in mind that it’s never easy to earn trust of this guy; thus, if you truly love him, never hurt him.
Do not think of playing game with his sensitive heart, or you’ll lose him forever.
I hope the information here about how to get a Scorpio man back after you hurt him can somewhat answer what you are confusing. Significantly, these tips only work if this guy still has feelings for you; in case he truly lets go, then your chase will have no result.
Wish you only the best!
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I’m scorpio Im very silent I look little black race I’m not shy type but if any chicks tease me wit my race I be stubborn I kill them wit my knife and I love sex only anal I sex addict wow girls is my life lol
Well, never push the Scorpio to the dead end, right? We all, deep inside, a dangerous creature!
Have a nice day!
I am a Scorpio man. I cheated on my girl a bunch of times. But I never one day wanted any of these women. As I saw someone eloquently put it on another site, we don’t cheat, we lust. I think that’s something important to recognize when it comes to cheating and Scorpios…we have extremely high sex drives, and are strongly attracted to beauty. Coupled with a sense of danger (when you’re in a relationship) desire to find out the mystery of another woman often takes precedence over the sanctity of the relationship…for me, my loyalty is shown by my heart never for a split second being taken captive by another woman, no matter how beautiful she is…now we have broken up, and she told me on her bday she has a new friend, and I think she had sex with somebody but I’m not sure, I’ve been having really crazy thoughts. After ignoring her for a week, I told her Randomly I loved her (which I really hate that I did but I couldn’t help it). I love her so much. My heart hurts so much. We have a beautiful daughter together. But I can’t go back…sometimes I feel like I’m hurting for my future self, who will one day look back and see a faint memory of a woman whom I thought would be my wife. I’m 27 btw.
My Scorpio man, and I have been together for a little over 6 years. I love him with everything in me. I am a Pisces I’ve hurt my Scorpio, not by cheating, I would never do that. But for the first time since we’ve known each other, I lied to him. Things have been pretty rocky in our relationship since. I’ve desperately tried to prove to him that I’ll never do it again, and I won’t. But he’s hurt me with his words pretty badly, which I know isn’t the same, but it cut me deeply. How do we get back what we had? Will he ever be my best friend again? All I want is for him to forgive me, and love me again. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Dear Amanda,
Sadly you lied to a Scorpio. Honesty is everything to this man and it’s really hard to gain back the trust from him. The chance for him to forgive you depends on the situation of your relationship. Keep in mind that he may forgive but will never forget! Just making promises with words will not work; instead, prove that you’ve changed with actions.
Don’t rush – the process to get his forgiveness requires a long time.
Good luck!
Are y’all still together if so how long did it take cause I can’t handle it anymore I been crying for 2 days me and him was best friends we laughed we joked and always had date nights now he went to playing video games ignoring me I lied to him about my mom files I didn’t cheat I wouldn’t do that we are still together but his words kills me they hurt I been throwing up over this I just need us back
Dear Candice,
Go to him and tell him you were wrong and that he couldn’t have been more correct. (And you will have to convince yourself of this in all honesty before you even approach him, because if you aren’t sincere, he will know it.) Abase yourself, but do it in all honesty or he won’t believe it.
Sincere!
I’m not a Scorpio, instead I a a Aries woman . I have dated a Scorpion male. They are definitely difficult creatures to recon with after they have been hurt. Often times, they push you into giving up. Well shall I say once they’ve decided to “ forgive “ it’s too a point that you may not even want it anymore. There are always many sides to a disagreement or matter. I really feel if Scorpio is never going “ forget” then that a failing outcome even if you get them back.. people tend to move unconsciously with sabotaging behaviors and actions when the forgiving can’t be forgotten. I do understand keeping a point of reference. Hell what do I know… Aries are forgiving , and loyal.
Am i Libra and am dating Scorpio guy my problem with him is at times I don’t understand he and his not open to me but he tells me things indirectly. Please how do I deal with it. Thank
Hi dear,
He is Scorpio, so you must give him time to learn to trust, open up about himself and his own vulnerabilities and insecurities.
Your man may have never been able to be open with his family, which lead to not being open with friends and now it’s taking its shape in your relationship. I understand you want to be his confidant, most females are like that, not all, but most. We want to nurture and nest a happy space for our love. The best thing you can do is reassure. When you know something is going on, you simply say “I am always here for you whenever you need me or want to talk” There are also great moments to try to share some intimacy, like when you’re walking. Being side to side vs. Face to face is a lot easier for people who struggle to open up, it gives them space to emote without you seeing everything on their face, they don’t have to look you in the eye, etc.
I’m not sure how long your relationship has been occurring, but if you love him, give him some more time and reassurance and if you get to a point where there seems to be a void there for you, that is your sign.
We aren’t meant to be perfect for each person we love.
Sincere
What do I do I caught my Scorpio in a lie so did not believe that this girls paddle brush was his do he pulled my hair and slapped me slapped me allot then says fuck u to me when I tried to talk to him and he says I owe him an apology for thinking he lied when he has many other girl momentoes….
Hello my name is Hillary Claire Benoit and my best guy friend and I have known each other all our lives and I think that I am really in love with him and I am not sure what to do about it ps his zodiac sign is a Scorpio and I am a Capricorn
Hi Hillary,
Sorry to say this but you cant. Once a Scorpio is gone, its best to leave him be.
Once a Scorpio has left or made up his mind, he is gone. Its best not to disturb him , as all Scorpios are venemous and can turn defensive quickly. They do more harm in defense than anything else. (they are aggressive in defense not aggresive in taking the offensive.) It takes alot for a scorpio to get fed up.. A Scorpio is a loyal and insightful creature. And once you lose favor or trust with one – it cannot be regained. I’m sorry this isn’t the news you would want to hear. But know, that he doesnt hate you and truely does wish the best for you (no matter how it seems) – and thats why he will stay away from you at all costs.. He knows that if your not on his side then your against him. He will stay away to protect you, not harm you. As you are now no longer on his side.
Sincere
Me and my scorpio friend has been texting for few weeks. We are becoming good friends fast. But a few days ago I lied to him about some exam result of mine and confessed to him the reason the next day. He was a bit stern learning I lied to him but after hearing out my reason, he said he understood. I even went as far as asking if he’s still angry with me. He said no. We talked a bit. Then he stopped texting. Is this normal? Will I get back my friend?
Hi Sabrina,
Honesty is the very best policy with a Scorpio.
The majority of Scorpio sun signs and/or personalities don’t like to be lied to, disrespected, insulted, gossiped or laughed about, stolen from or compared to ex-lovers. Most people don’t like a lot of those same behaviors either, but Scorpio types are traditionally distrustful of everyone they meet until they have decided otherwise. If you are struggling with anything in your life, it’s better to be honest with a Scorpio and ask them for their help. If you are honest and show you are sincere, they will move mountains to help you. One of the things which upsets a Scorpio male is when someone breaks their promises to him. It is a big show stopper. He also becomes very angry when he discovers someone has been lying to him or misleading him.
So, even if your lie is not a big deal, he doesn’t like people around him tell lies to him. Scorpios do not trust anyone quickly and have way too many trust issues.
Sincere
Me and my Scorpio man are long distance. It has been hard, but also great because we both are very loyal and are working on our communication. However, I got upset with him for playing too many video games, and I didn’t communicate it in a kind way. I wasn’t really breaking up with him, but it was basically saying this lifestyle was not working for me. The next day I apologized, and he said he forgave me, however he needed to go MIA for a few days. I don’t know why, I just told him I understand and will be here when he is ready.. And we haven’t spoken for days, it is killing me! But I want to do what he needs. Why did he need all that space? Am I doing the right thing by giving him the space he wanted?
Im a libra been dating this scorpio man 7 months, and he cheated the the whole 7 months with his supposedly ex for 6 years.. This man has done so much to my hurt, to where i think hes acting out like this on purpose, Now he withheld sex from me…His excuse is he cant get hard and hes 52 btw…He stalks me, threatens to tare down my house when i tried to leave……I really hate this man…My lifes been a wreck
Hi my name is bukola, I’m a Pisces. I cheated on my scorpio boyfriend and he caught me. I did that three weeks after we met and it was because I didn’t trust him, not knowing that he has trusted me and loved me… now his friend told him not to date me anymore and also telling him things.
I’ve been begging him now but he keeps saying he can’t trust me again. Please what can I do to make him trust and love me again cause I’m in love with him, our relationship is just two months but he knows I cheated on him last week. I told him the truth about everything and I’ve been begging him since last week but I’ve stopped begging him now.
Hi,
I recently broke up with a Scorpio who lives in Great Britain. Here’s the problem that is going on between us. He keeps wanting to talk to me and vise-versa, then he just tells me to get lost. I’m trying to figure out why he’s behaving like this. One of the things he says when he reaches out to me. ” I missed you.” ” I’m worried about you.” And right when I think everything is ok, he just snaps. Then I feel guilty because I feel like I caused him to snap, but I don’t know what I did.
Hi Hannah,
In a relationship it is always important to be understanding of what the other is going through, however, if my boyfriend or husband tells me to get lost (unless he is just starting to learn the English language), I am going to take it seriously and actually leave. It is a personal affront and devoid of affection.
Sincere
Hi, the one thing I’ve learn about being with a Scorpio is that they do have a lot of trust issues and if they let you in and you betray them. It’s not going to be easy to gain their trust again. I wish I had did my due diligence on my Scorpio and because I didn’t it has caused me my friendship. Even though he doesn’t say much I can still feel his hurt and frustration about what I did. No, I didn’t cheat.
What I would say to anyone that wants to get involved with a Scorpio please do your due diligence find out all you can about them. I am so surprised at what I found out about being in love or being involved with a Scorpio. It can be very intense! If you’re not ready I say don’t do it! Thanks for listening!!!